Longing and DesireAlong with pretty much everyone I know, my husband and I recently finished the fourth season of The Crown on Netflix. Maybe it was being…Apr 6, 2021Apr 6, 2021
Just Another FrogI once heard a man in his mid-fifties sharing at an AA meeting as he opened with an amusing story about his particular morning. He said he…May 17, 2020May 17, 2020
First Week Check-InIt’s been seven days since my No Complaining, No Criticizing thirty-day experiment and I am pretty impressed thus far with my success. I…Apr 13, 2020Apr 13, 2020
My Thirty Day ExperimentWhat if I stopped complaining for thirty days? What if I stopped criticizing for that same amount of time? What if I made the decision to…Apr 6, 2020Apr 6, 2020
I won my first wet T-shirt contest on Sunday.When I bartended at The Copa, we’d have a weekly wet jockey shorts contest hosted by a drag queen. The contestants would stand in a plastic…Oct 30, 20191Oct 30, 20191
I am a fool.This is made most apparent to me in my marriage of 25 years. The same problems keep arising time and again dating back to the start in…Jul 5, 2018Jul 5, 2018
I’m a little dark today…I think I’re been on what they call in AA a pink cloud after the amputation of my left leg below the knee. I left the the hospital within 3…Mar 2, 20182Mar 2, 20182
A Leg UpBy the end of yesterday, I had pretty much decided on amputation. But this morning as I got up and hobbled to the bathroom on the bad leg…Feb 16, 2018Feb 16, 2018
DandelionsIt is Saturday morning six months after we’ve moved into our newly constructed house on Fair Oaks Drive, in a suburb of Akron, Ohio. I’m…Jan 11, 2018Jan 11, 2018
It’s time to kill my parents.Maybe slitting their throats is more fitting than bludgeoning. Either way, something violent and bloody, a real visceral kill, not…Oct 21, 20162Oct 21, 20162